Monday, 22 October 2018

Ways To Succeed In Life And Get What You Want Along The Way.

Not everything in life is easy and you really need to work on it, but you will get so much satisfaction from achieving what you want if you follow some simple ways to succeed in life and get what you want along the way. Everybody should have dreams that they aspire to reach, it gives us some focus in life.

Always have huge dreams and aspirations

It's no good to have small things to look forward to because you need to be able to aspire to something, you need to dream big so that you can really work towards it. Why aspire to write a blog, when you can aspire to write a book. Having big dreams is scary sometimes because you think you will never meet them, but you will and if you have big dreams, you will push yourself further to get them.

Believe in yourself and that you can do it. 

You need to be able to believe that you can reach your aspirations because although others will believe in you too, they can't reach your dreams for you. If you believe in yourself then you will get self-confidence that will, in turn, push you towards your goal in life.

Work extremely hard

Nothing is going to be handed to you on a plate, so you need to work toward it yourself. Not only will you feel better for working hard for yourself but you will reach your dreams and goals faster and more smoothly.

Use the opportunities that you see on the way

There will be plenty of opportunities along the way to help you get ahead in life and reach your goals and aspirations. Do some extra training, As a blogger, I usually attend conferences to help me become a better blogger. If someone asks you to help them out and it would look good on your CV or as a testimonial on your blog. It might be worth it to get ahead in what you want. If you see something that hasn't been written about, then write about it and share the heck out of it using social media, get yourself out there.

Planning is the key

Know what you are doing. It's easy to have the ideas in your head but make sure they make sense on paper too. Make mind maps to make sense of your plans and ideas. Mind maps are easy to remember little details. I am the last minute planner, but I wish I could plan things better.

Be passionate about what you want

If you don't love what you want to do and get emotional or passionate over it, then is it really something that you want to succeed at?

Focus 100% on what you want and head for that goal

I have bipolar, so it is actually extremely hard for me to focus on something for a long time. I'm sure that I'm not the only person that is like this. But you need to dangle that carrot in front of you to keep yourself heading towards it. What prize can you have as well as the goal? Have something to look forward to, once you have reached your goal.

Only try for one goal at a time

You only should head for one goal at a time, quite often the ultimate goal might be too far away and it seems like its going to be forever before you reach it. But set yourself smaller goals that you can achieve along the way and celebrate every time you reach one of the mini goals.


Think about what you're going to do, get ideas from other people as well as yourself, I suppose this kind of works well with planning. Again make mind maps to brainstorm with and putting planning into place. Brainstorming sessions with others are a great way to thrash out ideas and share ways that things will work for you.

Don't let setbacks spoil it.

Sometimes as you are trying to reach your aspirations or dreams, you will find that things get in the way. It might be that you start a family and life gets in the way, don't worry, you can still reach your dreams. Sometimes people put you down and say that you won't reach your dreams or they may say nasty things about your work as you are reaching your dreams or aspirations. Do not ever let these people put you off, use what they are saying to push yourself further and use it to encourage yourself. If you make mistakes, then correct them and carry on, put it down to experience and get back on the horse! You will be very lucky if you do manage to make your dreams reality without any setbacks.


You need to be in the right frame of mind to get what you want out of life too. You need to focus 100% on what you want. Tell yourself every day that you can achieve it and how you're going to achieve it. If you have a positive mindset, then everything else should slot into place.

Take Courses 

Throughout my life, I have taken various courses from computing to internet crimes. These days its so easy to complete a course online like an NLP Course, you get qualifications and online support throughout the course.

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